Focused on it….

Stick to the plan. You knew it wouldn’t be easy because elevation requires focus, hustle and sacrifice. The higher you climb, the thinner the air. But when it’s you time to take flight, you’ll be proud you stayed the course.

Don’t give up. Don’t give in. Stay the course. God is moving the world on your behalf.

Love42Day: I’m focused on making it happen!

You know I’m rooting4u because I love you. You got this!

Much Love,

Ora Fontay

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Sunday’s message….

Sometimes you have to hear a message over and over to really get the message.

This is one of those type messages. “Don’t allow your mind to stop you in places or spaces the world will move out of your way!”-WS Let me know if this message has helped you in anyway.

Affirmation of the day: I am able to do anything I set my mind to do!

Much Love,

Ahava Ora

Say it..

Affirmation of the day: Let it be!!!

Love,

Ahava Ora

Survival skills …..

You’ve been in this place before.

Photo by Ric Rodrigues

You’ve been anxious, scared, not knowing what to do, or what comes next, but you survived. You’ve felt the pressure of life pulling you in all kinds of directions, having all kinds of thoughts- mainly fear- but you survived. You’ve gone through one thing after the other-the loss of loved ones, friends, jobs, and even some missed opportunities- but you survived. Life has thrown some curve balls and you stood at the plate hitting fouls and even striking out, but you survived. This time is no different. It may feel different due to it being a different circumstance or situation, but just like you did before you will do again-survive.

Message: As long as you don’t give up -you wont give in. In fact, you will survive and thrive!

Much Love,

Ahava Ora

It’s a celebration…..

It’s easy to get lost in your struggle and not celebrate your successes. However, on today I encourage you to take time to think about how far you’ve come. Pat yourself on the back for a job well done, attempted, executed or whatever the case may be. Celebrate all of your accomplishments. You are so worthy!!!

Much love,

Ahava Ora

The heaviness of healing…..

The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air reunion played and I couldn’t wait to catch up with the cast. It was good seeing them sitting on the set discussing old times, clips, bloopers and Uncle Phil (James Avery). It was even better seeing Janet Hubert (the original Aunt Viv) sitting, smiling and hugging the cast. She and Will reconciled after 27-30 years of not speaking. I watched as she revealed her heaviness and Will revealed his childishness.

They sat in that moment and embraced their mistakes. They didn’t deny it, over talk one another, analyze it, -they just sat there and took it. The hurt, the tears, the apologies, the love was all genuine, authentic and needed to be seen. I learned from their hurt how to heal. Isn’t that amazing!!! It’s been said experience is the best teacher, but learning from other’s mistakes ain’t so bad either. Did you pull anything from this powerful reunion?

If you didn’t watch it, please do. You can find it on HBO Max. Bring some tissue!

Much love,

Ahava Ora

It’s heavy but I’m hopeful…..

Some days you rise & it seems your very breath is escaping you. Your heart seems heavier than normal, the room appears to spin, the walls move in closer, the temperature rises & falls, the pain is excruciating & soon becomes overbearing. You try to move, but it feels like someone or something is pressing all their weight down. You sit there, fragile, desperate yet hopeful.

Hopeful this feeling will pass & it will when you GET UP and GET PASS it!

Pain doesn’t just go away. Hate doesn’t just end. Trust isn’t just given. All of it takes work-your work, my work, OUR work. So, I will NOT allow you to count yourself out another moment. Tap into your strength, you got lots of it, and push pass this moment of pain! Your purpose awaits you!

#Message: I don’t mean to sound preachy, but I do mean for this to impact and change your perspective.

Much Love,

Ahava Ora

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I just wanted to say thank you…….

Thank you sun for lighting our journey as we travel these wicked streets!

Thank you earth for allowing us to stand strong as you hold our heavy hearts and weight across you. Thank you moon for never allowing it, or our plans to go dark. Thank you stars for always pointing and leading us in the right direction. Thank you rain for the liquid love, it’s cleansing and ah- so refreshing. Thank you wind for blowing in our blessings and whisking our burdens away. Thank you trees for the well needed oxygen and much needed shade.

Thank you universe for constant protection and making a way out of ‘no way’!

#Message: *Hate is in an uproar because its at its end days*

Much Love,

Ahava Ora

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Way too heavy, but…

With so much fear and sadness in the world it’s a blessing we aren’t all depressed!

You can’t be human and not be affected by all the deaths, rather it be from Covid-19, police brutality, drug overdose, gang violence, mass shootings or anything considered tragic termination. It’s all so overwhelmingly heavy. Everyday there’s a human sacrifice, and it’s understandable because we know death is a part of life, but not at the expense of one’s dysfunctional emotions.

As humans, we shouldn’t fear other humans we’re designed to live in harmony with.  You can hate, but don’t harm. You can envy, but don’t execute. You can shame, but don’t shoot. You can basically do whatever you desire as long as it doesn’t end someone else desires. It may not be world peace, but it can be harmonious if you understand you’re human first!

#Message: “May the winds blow in blessings and blow away burdens.”

Much Love,

Ahava Ora

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Valley moments…

It’s a revealing experience causing discomfort that can also feel extremely low.

Now I’m stressed with worry

Often times, I felt I’d be stuck in my lowest and weakest moments forever. In other moments, I felt doing anything proved worthless because nothing changed no matter how much or hard I tried. Other moments, I feel the war of my past fights my present to jump my future, but I keep trying to change it. Behold and ‘Aha!’, there’s beauty in the valley moments of my life. There’s power displayed, there’s strength gained, there are lessons learned all because I tried and keep trying. I understood then and understand now trying’s not just a word, it’s an action. It means DO-ing. And my doing brought me gained strength from continuing movement with purposed action while displaying a level  of confidence and self-belief . That’s a power play from a mindset advising any and everything can change by just doing something. That’s a warrior mentality. That’s a lesson learned. That’s success.

In my weakest moments I gain my greatest strength.

When I have what I call ‘deep conversation’ about a subject I tend to think about my actions in it a little deeper. So, I thought about my crying moments, when it all hits at once but I get up and go back to work. About how when I feel sick in my body, can barely breathe out of my nose, I get up and fix me a cure. About when they constantly tell me no and one door after the other closes, I get up and go knock on the next one. Then when all seems crazy and there’s no peace whichever way I turn, I turn the next page or corner anyway. ‘Aha!’ alas I see the trend. I see the strength. I see the mind changing to a power perspective. I see how my valley lows become my highs. I see how detrimental it is to push myself out of the valley and into the next level or lesson to be learned. I see the lessons in the valley. I witnessed and witness its movement. I am its power!

The roller coasters of life are necessary!

Much Love,

Tracy B