Yes I must confess I’m a reality tv junkie. I absolutely love to see people lives unfold on tv and listen to others opinions on what they would or wouldn’t do. The main one that sticks out to me is Love & Hip Hop Atlanta. There’s this triangle love affair going on that involves Stevie J, Joseline Hernandez & Mimi Faust. It’s the topic of discussion on every social networking site after the show airs and sometimes during the show.
Stevie J says that he is God and his women are never going anywhere. He says they will put up with his madness, get along, allow him to share his love with other women, and better not complain or else he will replace them with someone else. Wow!! He has some nerve right? You should see all the comments calling the women stupid, how they wouldn’t let him do this or that, how they will never put up with such mess and will end things quick if he even thinks of treating them any other way besides like the queens they are. Wow!! They have some nerve right? LOL
I say this because judgement and conviction was placed on these women only because their dirt is played out on tv for us to watch and offer our opinion of the matter. I don’t think the women are stupid more than I think they believe their in love. They actually think that they could be the one to change him of his horrible ways. They believe he loves them but just having a hard time expressing it. They are no different from you or me. Now before you say I don’t know what I’m talking about answer the following questions with the truth
Have you ever been cheated on? Did you take the man/woman back and they did it again? Have you ever been lied to and it destroyed your trust? Have you ever believed your love could change the heart/mind of another? Have you ever said you’ve invested too much time to allow the next person to reap all the benefits?
If you answered yes to even 1 question then you have no room to judge. If you have never experienced any of the following then keep on living because it’s going to happen in your lifetime. Lust makes us all blind at some point, but it also makes us realize LOVE was never part of the equation.
God tells us the real meaning of love= Love is long-suffering, and kind. Love is not jealous, it odes not brag, does not get puffed up, does not behave indecent, does not look for its own interests, does not become provoked. It does not keep an account of the injury. It does not rejoice over unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things= LOVE NEVER FAILS
Love works both ways.
Don’t fret if the love is not returned, just move on because you will reap what you sow
Much LOVE 2 YA,